Woah

Donnerstag, 18. März 2010
 Hey loves,
I am really sorry for my long absence. It is just that I needed to sort some things out,get a clear mind..blah.
In fact the whole too-fat-for-school thing turned on me. My father *caught* me. We had a long talk featured by an emotional breakdown... after our long talk my father said that he thinks I might have a depression. That is why I was at some doctor's today. Sorry that this sounds really short und undetailed,it is jsut that it already troubles me so much, my head and emotions are like so confusing and complicated....
So just a few keywords/sentences.
Doctor took blood.
I am really worried what the test will say on Monday.
Will he kow about my ED?
Does the result say somethig about me being severely malnourished or something like that?
I told him about my vegan diet,hopefully he does not think it is just a phase or "to stick slender"-thing.
IT IS NOT
On the one hand I really want to handle my depression problem and if  some special supplements or medcine might help to soften my problems until I have a therapist I can talk to about my fucked up psyche thx to many factors in my life.
But on the other hand I am terrified they might discover my eating disorder.
I don't want them to. Never ever.
So I have been taking some vitamine supplements the past few days and I hope they will not screw up the blood test completely, but on the other hand if they soften any possible malnourishment which might let the doctor suspect an ed I am more than glad.

Gosh, I wanted to be way more precise and detailed, blog about more but now...all the words are gone

Dammit, I am really sorry  but at least you got SOME news of me

2 Kommentare:

zen hat gesagt…

What kind of doctor (if you don't mind me asking)? If it is a general/family doctor, then he is checking for basic health issues, like iron levels, anemia, etc that could cause fatigue leading to depression.
If it is a psychiatrist or psychologist, he may be checking for illicit drugs, which would also explain depression ;)

Either way, HUGS!
xoxo,
zen

Peridot (G+P) hat gesagt…

Oh god, Mina! *hugs*

One of the side effects of starvation IS depression. It's really hard to work out if the depression causes he ED or the other way around.

That's why in IP treatment they feed you up first, coz you brain just does not work at very low weights. (It actually starts to shrink. Scary, no?)

Hmm, he hopefully won't find and illicit drugs in your blood XD I'm not as much help in that department as Zen >.<

Have a good day, honey. I hope you can work things out with your Dad. You need parents, no matter how hard things get, they will always have your back.

<3

Some sayings and quotes I like...


"If you're looking for me, I'm hovering around phrensis, more precisely on the thin line between phrenesis and panic, just round the corner of deadly terror and not very far away from despair and idiocy!"
♦Sooner or later everyone will cause you pain…You just have to figure out which ones are worth it.
Smile. It’s easier than explaining why you’re sad…
Behind my smile is a hurting heart, behind my laugh I’m falling apart. Look closely at me and you will see, the girl I am, it isn’t me…
My knight in shinig armour turned out to be a looser in aluminium foil
What's better? A lie, that drwas a smile (and satisfies) or the truth that draws a tear?
♦(translatet) I am my own hell,my own paradise,a fallen angel, that plunged herself into ruin
Technically, one simply gets unhappy by pondering.
Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain!
I'm not afraid of Happy Endings.I'm just afraid my life won't work that way..

The only reason people hold on memories so tight is because memories are the only thing that won't change when everything else does.
Every time a child says"I don't believe in fairies" there's a little fairy somewhere that falls down dead"-Peter Pan

"When you lose the battle
You may as well give up the war"


.... nothing tastes as good as thin feels....sacrifice is giving up something good for something way better.....

When I hate...

When I hate
this stretch of skin
this bulge of thigh
this clinging fat
these beady eyes

When I hate
this stomach flab
this sagging chest
this chunky butt
these too small breasts

When I lose
my sense of self
my dignity
my pride in all
that makes up me

When I lose
this ugly face
this state of mind
my worst disgrace
then I'll be fine.
Then I'll be fine.
You'll see, I'm fine.
~Ant (Morgan S.)~